If you know us, you know that we can’t stand our neighbors. Â We are generally tolerant people, in the sense that we will put up with crappy music blasting through the walls until about midnight. Â Actually, we still put up with it after midnight, but we just bitch about it at length amongst ourselves. Â Our downstairs neighbors chose last night to blast incredibly awful music until 4:30AM. Â People were in out out of their unit all night long. Â I kept getting jolted awake as soon as I’d drift off to sleep….and sleep has been in short supply lately. Â At 3:30AM, Rob wrote a note and stuck it on their door asking them to politely watch the volume. Â Well, they got the note, but the noise has gone on ALL DAY today. Â I’ve been doing different things to keep busy as the day has gone on. Â My main goal is to try to stay as relaxed as possible, which is very difficult with a bunch of people playing awful hip hop and engaging in childish drinking games just underneath my bedroom. Â I really haven’t felt too emotional or upset during this pregnancy, but the idea that the hospital is going to be more relaxing than my own home depresses me beyond belief. Â I’ve had contractions all day today and it’s been really difficult to lay here thinking about how the challenging moments of labor are only going to get worse when I can hear vapid shouting matches unfold underneath our home in the middle of the night. Â I want out of here so badly. Â There are other reasons to despise the neighbors (like no help with the yard work when it’s obvious that I (we) can’t do it by ourselves anymore), but I don’t want to digress too much.
So here’s what we did with our Saturday to distract us from the Neanderthals downstairs:
- I made homemade oatmeal apple pancakes for breakfast
- We walked into town and bought a baby book and a wool diaper cover
- Went to the Farmer’s Market where I ran into the university veterinarian (who gave me a big hug and good luck vibes for the delivery), one of my former students and his daughter, my prenatal yoga teacher and her 1-week old son, and some dude that Rob works with.
- Sat on my butt and watched Rob weed the garden
- Came home and laid around in bed, wishing I had ear plugs:(
- We’re about to walk up to the movie theater to see Indiana Jones
- Afterwards, we will likely continue our date at a local restaurant