Holden is getting creative with his excuses. Â We have a lovely houseguest (R’s youngest brother) who wants to sleep in during his holiday break from college (I don’t blame him!) Â We let him sleep as long as he can, through the cacophony and screaming that sometimes characterizes our mornings and early afternoons. Â I do urge Holden to speak in a lower voice, however, which as you know for most 3.5 year olds is a near impossibility. Â Yesterday morning after speaking quietly for about 30 minutes (because Holden narrates EVERYTHING he does, all day long), Holden comes to me and exclaims, “Talking quietly hurts my throat.” Â I laughed at him, of course, because we all know how respectful behavior can sometimes result in physical pain.
I do love listening to Holden’s ongoing narrative. Â He has conflicts between his toys, which usually result in one of the toys proposing a diplomatic solution (e.g. “We’ll just share this delicious meal of carrion, monster truck!!!!”) Â Holden incorporates a lot of what he has learned about dinosaurs and evolution into his dialogues. Â He is obsessed with documentaries about prehistoric life, and has cultivated an encyclopedic-like knowledge of different types of dinosaurs, their dietary habits, and the part of the Mesozoic era in which they lived. Â He knows the difference between nocturnal and diurnal animals, herbivorous/carnivorous/omnivorous animals, and the difference between mammalian and non-mammalian species. Â His latest obsession is about nursing. Â He knows that mammals nurse and that we are mammals, and that I will therefore nurse his little brother. Â He sometimes takes out his mother and baby brachiosaurus, and pretending that they are giraffes, has the baby nurse from the mother. Â It’s very sweet.
Today: Â R’s parents and H’s cousin C will be visiting for a few days. Â It should be fun—-H always has such a blast with his big cousin:)