I’m crazy to start doing this at such a late date, but I decided to engage in a little reflection during this cold, dark month, a la #reverb10.  I have hardly done any writing this semester that was not specifically for work, and as a consequence, I’m really feeling the need to do a little bit of meditation as the year winds to a close.

Here’s my first crack at this:

December 1 – One Word. Encapsulate the year 2010 in one word. Explain why you’re choosing that word. Now, imagine it’s one year from today, what would you like the word to be that captures 2011 for you?

Conflicted.  I almost chose the word serendipitous, to reflect the weird turn of events with my job back in May, but upon closer reflection I thought that the word “conflicted” was more apt.  I am conflicted about career.  About Holden.  About the various ratios by which my time is divided between career and Holden at any given time.  I am conflicted about the next step.  About choices that seem to be permanent, and are therefore huge and looming.  How can I feel confident that the choices I make are the best?  I know that it’s a fantasy world to expect that every choice you make is met with 100% confidence in the quality, rightness, and future satisfaction of those choices.  That said, for 2011, I would like to have the word “contentment” replace the word “conflicted,” so that every choice I make over the next 12 months is made self-assuredly, without looking back…..